"You'll get over it..." It's the clichés that cause the trouble. To lose someone you love is to alter your life forever.You don't get over it because 'it' is the one you loved. The pain stops, but the gap never closes. How could it? The particularness of someone who mattered enough to grieve over is not made anodyne by death. This hole in my heart is in the shape of you and no one else can fit it. (25/09/2013)